Physical abuse

Continuing our conversation on the different forms of abuse in marriage. Please note this post can be triggering.

Physical abuse in marriage can manifest in various forms, including but not limited to:

1. Hitting and slapping: This involves the use of physical force through striking, slapping, or hitting one’s partner, resulting in physical injury or harm.

2. Punching and kicking: The abuser may use their body to inflict pain by punching, kicking, or stomping on their partner, causing severe bruises, broken bones, or internal injuries.

3. Choking and strangulation: The abuser may exert control and dominance by choking or strangling their partner, leading to oxygen deprivation and potentially life-threatening consequences.

4. Using weapons: In some cases, the abuser may utilize objects or weapons to cause harm, such as hitting with an object, throwing objects at their partner, or using a weapon like a knife or a gun.

5. Burning or scalding: The abuser may intentionally inflict burns or scalds on their partner’s body, leaving physical scars and immense pain.

It is crucial to acknowledge that anyone, regardless of gender, can experience physical abuse in various contexts, including within a marriage or intimate relationship. While it is commonly perceived that women are more often victims of physical abuse, men can also find themselves in abusive situations. Men who experience physical abuse might face unique challenges due to societal expectations, gender stereotypes, and cultural norms. It is important to provide support and resources for male victims of physical abuse, ensuring they have a safe environment to share their experiences and seek assistance.

Men and Women who experience physical abuse may go through a range of emotional and psychological effects. Physical abuse can cause feelings of fear, helplessness, and confusion. It can chip away at self-esteem, causeing doubt in own worth.

Both men and women may also experience a sense of isolation and shame, often feeling hesitant or unable to disclose their situation due to societal stigma or fear of judgment. The manipulation and control tactics used by abusers can make victims feel trapped in the abusive relationship, making it incredibly difficult to leave.

The physical injuries resulting from abuse can have lasting physical and psychological consequences, both visible and hidden. The trauma experienced from physical abuse can contribute to symptoms of anxiety, depression, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), or other mental health challenges.

It is important to remember that physical abuse can range in severity and frequency, but all forms are equally unacceptable and should never be tolerated.

Please seek help from the police, GPs councillors, and professional support groups.

Here are a few suggestions for both men and women.

For men....

https://refuge.org.uk/i-need-help-now/other-support-services/support-for-men/

https://mensadviceline.org.uk/

https://www.helpguide.org/articles/abuse/help-for-men-who-are-being-abused.htm

And for women...

Here are some helpful links to get you started.

https://www.womensaid.org.uk/

https://refuge.org.uk/

https://england.shelter.org.uk/housing_advice/homelessness/womens_refuges

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